Well I got my divorce papers yesterday, my wife warned me of a paragraph which she checked because she thought she didn't have enough of a reason to get a divorce. The part she checked made me really sad, because it is like opposite of my whole character, she checked:
The respondent (me) has inflicted cruel and inhuman treatment on the petitioner (her), which has destroyed or tended to destroy the mental and physical well being of the petitioner, and which renders continual cohabitation with the respondent unsafe and unendurable.
She said she based the check on the last word, unendurable, she just couldn't deal with me being the way I am. OK, that’s fine but why not check the box below that says other and write in Transgender that would be a lot better to me than making me seem like a monster.
I am sure there are exceptions and she probably remembers times but I can not remember a time when I as so much degraded her, I was always trying to build her up, a day never passed when I didn’t tell her I love her, tell her she is beautiful, never, then she goes and checks a box like that.
She said she didn’t mean it that way, she said when the hearing comes up we can say that there was a mistake there, still that just makes me very upset.
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